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Traditional offerings
Give what you can keep up. A glass of water every day beats a pile of gifts you dump and forget.
The ordinary table
Fresh water, a white candle, flowers that have not gone slimy, incense if smoke is allowed in the room. Bread, fruit, or a little of what you actually eat.
What not to offer as a stunt
Do not pour liquor you cannot handle. Do not leave meat to rot “for power.” Do not steal flowers from a grave to look hard. She does not need your mess to be fed.
Digital offerings
A petition on this site is a word, not a substitute for water on a real table. If you have no altar, a cup of water and a candle still count.
